Imagine you are drowning in an ocean. And someone swims over to help you.
Imagine that someone swims you to the beach, and throw you deeper into the sea, and never return to look at you again.
Imagine you are drowning in a deeper ocean, helpless. Will you thrust that someone again? Will you think the someone will ever come back?
Imagine IF he came back to help, will he throw you back to the ocean again?
Imagine you were me, what will you do? Swim back to the beach yourself? Or hope that the someone will return?

My advice: You, yourself must be a swimmer. Even someone throw you in a middle of a sea. You can still swim back yourself. I dunno how to swim. So, I have to learn.